Honor by Thrity Umrigar

 Honor by Thrity Umrigar My Rating: 5.0

The story of two couples and the sometimes dangerous and heartbreaking challenges of love across a cultural divide. 

Indian American journalist Smita has returned to India to cover a story, but reluctantly: long ago she and her family left the country with no intention of ever coming back. As she follows the case of Meena—a Hindu woman attacked by members of her own village and her own family for marrying a Muslim man—Smita comes face to face with a society where tradition carries more weight than one’s own heart, and a story that threatens to unearth the painful secrets of Smita’s own past. While Meena’s fate hangs in the balance, Smita tries in every way she can to right the scales. She also finds herself increasingly drawn to Mohan, an Indian man she meets while on assignment. But the dual love stories of Honor are as different as the cultures of Meena and Smita themselves: Smita realizes she has the freedom to enter into a casual affair, knowing she can decide later how much it means to her. 

In this tender and evocative novel about love, hope, familial devotion, betrayal, and sacrifice, Thrity Umrigar shows us two courageous women trying to navigate how to be true to their homelands and themselves at the same time.

I’ve loved Thrity Umrigar’s writing for years, and Honor is yet another testament to her incredible gift. As with her other novels, India is not just a setting—it’s a character in itself. The throbbing pulse of the city, the clash of modernity with deep-rooted traditions, the painful realities of poverty and the caste system, all unfold beside the country’s undeniable beauty and spirit.

The plot is rich and layered, and the character development is nothing short of stunning. Umrigar has a way of making you feel everything—grief, hope, outrage, and love. I found myself completely absorbed, drinking in every word, eagerly turning each page.

Honor is a heart-wrenching story, but one that’s told with grace and power. It’s a book that will stay with me, and it’s a rare 5-star read from me—fully earned.